Author Archives: Alison Whistler

About Alison Whistler

Alison has over 15 years of experience in dealing with Matrimonial and Family matters and joined B Legal in July 2011 as a Director having previously headed up the Family Department at her last firm. Her work predominantly involves dealing with legal issues that can arise following a relationship breakdown issues such as divorce and separation, related financial issues and related disputes about children but she also deals with the drafting of pre-nuptial agreements and cohabitation agreements, adoption and domestic violence issues. She is an accredited member of Resolution, an organization promoting the amicable resolution of matrimonial disputes and has qualified as a member of the Law Society’s prestigious Family Law Panel. In addition Alison is a trained Collaborative Lawyer. The Collaborative process is a relatively new way of dealing with family disputes in a more amicable manner allowing couples and their lawyers to meet together and work things out face to face. Alison is married with two daughters and when not spending time with her family she enjoys travelling both at home and abroad, cookery, horse riding and dancing. Alison is also a School Governor and enjoys helping out with projects in her local community.

Joint Debts after Separation

There are many things to consider as a result of separation from your partner and one of the financial implications to consider is joint debts. This blog discusses debts you could be liable for after a relationship breakdown and suggests … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Guest Blog: Divorce – Relationship Coach

In the Family Law Department many of our clients are dealing with emotionally challenging situations.  We aim to support them fully, with legal advice and guidance.   In addition, at a time when strong feelings are present, there are also other … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Divorce doesn’t have to be expensive – 3 top tips to help you keep your legal costs down

1.         Be clear about your goals It is all too common to focus on the past when faced with a relationship breakdown.  Analysing what went wrong, whether it was your fault, your spouse’s fault or someone else’s fault all play … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | 1 Comment

Relationship Counselling

As a family lawyer my work includes advising on the legal implications of relationship breakdowns such as arrangements for the children, financial settlements, prenuptial agreements, civil partnership issues, cohabitation agreements and domestic abuse. However, many of my clients initially come … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Divorce – How to minimise the impact on children

I read an interesting article last week following the death of a prominent American Psychologist Judith Wallerstein. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/21/health/research/judith-s-wallerstein-psychologist-who-analyzed-divorce-dies-at-90.html?_r=1 Her report on how young children of a divorce often experienced the emotional impact well into their adulthood caused a national debate … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Team B Legal makes a splash – Dragon Boat style

 In true British tradition the main challenge that team B legal faced approaching the annual Marlow Regatta Dragon Boat race was the weather. Leading up to the day we had gales and torrential rain and the forecast didn’t look too … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Marlow Dragon Boat Racing

Team B legal are entering this year’s Marlow Dragon Boat Race on 10th June at Higginson Park. After a training session last night, Guest Blogger, Diksha Chakravarti, a holistic Back Pain and Sports therapist, gives us some tips to help keep all competitors pain … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Guest Blog – The Coach

At B Legal we like to take a practical approach to the law and to consider a client’s goals and objectives rather than just providing legal advice. There are many occasions when we suggest to clients that other professionals may … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Collaborative law – A New Approach to Divorce

To be honest collaborative law has been around now for at nearly 10 years now so whilst not technically “new” I’m aware that the public, as a whole, are still unaware of its existence. In some ways it may not … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off

Getting Good Advice

As part of my job as a Divorce Lawyer I often have to help clients sort out their finances so that they can become financially independent, if at all possible, in the future. Clients often assume that this simply involves … Continue reading

Posted in Posts | Comments Off