Dying Matters – why talk about it?

Talking about death and dying and making sure we have made provisions for our family and those closest to us is not a topic of conversation we all rush to have.  However our reluctance to talk about this subject often leaves us and those we leave behind ill prepared for the future. 

Talking about death doesn’t bring death closer – look at is as planning for life.  Fareed Kazi, a Wills and Probate solicitor at B Legal said “A lack of communication and conversation is perhaps the most important reason why peoples’ wishes go ignored or unfulfilled”.

To emphasise our commitment in providing the public with a valued legal service and also to encourage a more open discussion B Legal has recently joined the Dying Matters Coalition.  The aim of the Dying Matters Coalition is to support changing knowledge, attitudes and behaviours towards death, dying and bereavement. 

The Dying Matters Coalition was set up in 2009 by the National Council for Palliative Care (NCPC).  There now 15,000 members of this Coalition which include organisations across the NHS, voluntary and independent health and care sectors, faith and community organisations, the legal profession and the funeral sector. 

“Talking about dying with your family and friends and seeking professional legal advice is essential if you want your wishes to be carried out on your death” states Fareed.  “It will make things easier for those you love and care for and will help avoid any complications when dealing with your property and other assets after your death”. 

Fareed strongly advises people to start talking about these important issues to ensure their assets are protected and also that they maintain control over how their wealth is managed and distributed during their life and on death.  At the very least we should all look to discuss making a Will and consider whether we require Lasting Powers of Attorney to manage our finances and/or health and welfare should we become unable or incapable of doing so ourselves.  We should think about our future planning for long term health and care requirements. 

For more information visit Dying Matters (www.dyingmatters.org) or contact Fareed Kazi a solicitor in our Wills, Probate and Private Client team to discuss your affairs on tel: 01628 496669 or email: fkazi@b-legal.co.uk

About Alison Whistler

Alison has over 15 years of experience in dealing with Matrimonial and Family matters and joined B Legal in July 2011 as a Director having previously headed up the Family Department at her last firm. Her work predominantly involves dealing with legal issues that can arise following a relationship breakdown issues such as divorce and separation, related financial issues and related disputes about children but she also deals with the drafting of pre-nuptial agreements and cohabitation agreements, adoption and domestic violence issues. She is an accredited member of Resolution, an organization promoting the amicable resolution of matrimonial disputes and has qualified as a member of the Law Society’s prestigious Family Law Panel. In addition Alison is a trained Collaborative Lawyer. The Collaborative process is a relatively new way of dealing with family disputes in a more amicable manner allowing couples and their lawyers to meet together and work things out face to face. Alison is married with two daughters and when not spending time with her family she enjoys travelling both at home and abroad, cookery, horse riding and dancing. Alison is also a School Governor and enjoys helping out with projects in her local community.
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